When the Horizon is not Horizontal Anymore...

Sometimes, when you feel that things are going on a way that you'd prefer to be different. What is better to do? Let things on that way as ordinary, or make efforts and radical changes to blow up with a new idea and a new situation.

Humors are so difficult to control. So why when you wake up in the morning and it's rainy, you feel tired and depressed and you just won't to leave your couch? Yeah it happens to all of us, because we are quite influencable, and tiny events can take great importance in our lives. And what's this small thing that can keep our humor in a constant positive position? Don't Know! Sometimes it can be a smile but sometimes it can be a lot more than a smile.

Another thing the I've noticed is that when bad and depressing events begin to happen, it doesn't stop anymore. From small things such as losing your keys until big things like having a terrible accident...all the bad things agree to happen on one day and to make our humor at its least level. The consequence cannot be different from a terrific bad face and ideas. But just imagine one second; if all those bad things don't happen at one time, and that each day one small bad thing happens...it could be more awful because it will destroy all your days!!! Isn't it right? So, don't be so mad about those days.

My first reflexion was about profound choices that you make in your life and you don't really have the certainty that is the right thing. This doubt comes generally from moments of loliness where you think about the topic and you feel even that it doesn't answer to your criteria, or that you may have made the wrong choice. I talk here about a life-carrer, big decisions or a partner. The big question is that, decisions that we made in our lives are not absolutely rational, so why do we have to apply logic to a decision which is not basically logical? Why do I have to broke up with my partner because of a logical decision if I'm with him because I love him (which is not trational)? You feel this kind of distortion in the decisions that are taken. However, sometimes we need to evaluate our evolution, and the only way is to use logic, either for rational or irrational situations. It's a difficult task, because we, as human beings, have a tendency to deny trues that doesn't please us. With so many pains, we can conclude sometimes that a change has to be made in order to get out of this situation of imcompleteness.
If we are brave enough, we take this change as a necessary step in our life and we just execute it. Solely, we wonder sometimes, what could have happened if I didn't made that choice that have changed my life? Would my situation have been better if I kept my ancient life? It's our perpetual need of being reassured that puhes us to ask suh questions.

One little more advice, just do it as you feel it. I appreciate that people do things from their hearts and forget a little about rational and logic ways to do things. And believe me, things done from the heart are always the best.

Hind El Gaidi

C'est ma Vie apres Tout!

J'ai décidé d'agrémenter mon blog d'une nouvelle catégorie intitulée 'Ma Life'. L'objectif n'est pas de raconter de façon défrichée mes déboires ou mes joies, mes soirées ou mes sorties...mais c'est surtout de démarrer du cas spécial qu'est le mien lors de situations plus ou moins anodines et d'en tirer une certaine règle générale. L'autre but c'est aussi une manière de philosopher et méditer sur nos vies -mais pas au sens péjoratif-. De profiter de nos fautes pour faire de notre mieux les prochaines fois, de célébrer nos succès et de nous féliciter de notre courage. Le courage de nous réveiller chaque jour et d'affronter la vie avec tous ses aléas. Nous sommes des êtres forts et remplis de bonne volonté, malgré toutes nos fragilités internes, on se donne le moyen d'être d'attaque chaque matin, et ceci demande un sacré courage. Nos vies ressemblent à des sitcoms, moins drôles par moments, ou tout s'enchaine ne nous laissons point le temps de penser ou de réagir autrement. Joies, deuils, coups de cœur, chagrins d'amour...c'est notre vie nous femmes et hommes du 21 eme siècle. Notre vie est chargée de choses primordiales comme nos relations avec notre famille, nos carrières respectives ou alors de choses moins importantes comme le concert de 50 cent auquel on veut assister ou le dernier sac Gucci qu'on veut s'offrir. Mais c'est un tout cohérent et harmonieux qui fait de nous des êtres aimables, vivants et spontanés...heureux de ce qu'ils sont. Je vous laisse le plaisir de retrouver de temps à autre des notes concernant ma vie, suivies de petites analyses purement personnelles.

PS: Il se pourrait que mes notes soient en anglais ou en français!